How to Encourage
Encouraging someone is easy – it doesn’t take money or time and can be done by anyone, anywhere.
Remember what it felt like when someone said to you “Job well done!”or “Thank You” or “Fantastic Effort.” I am sure it encouraged you; in whatever it was that you were doing.
When a negative word is spoken to you such as “You’ll never be good at anything” I’m sure this didn’t encourage you at all! In fact the effects of the negative power of the spoken word in our personal lives can ripple far beyond us to affect everything and everybody.
Our words can destruct or construct, be positive or negative, so remember:
- Build people up and speak encouraging words. It not only affects them but your words will affect the people and the world around them.
- Choose words that will build self-esteem and confidence, build relationships and build possibilities.
- Choose to speak words of affirmation, encouragement, love, acceptance and appreciation.
- Just as negative words have a ripple effect so do positive words.
- Look for the positive aspect at all times.
Use wisdom when speaking to others; maybe take a moment to ask yourself “Is what I have to say going to encourage this person?” Be sensitive to the person whom you are directing your words to and choose your words carefully.
A Little “Thank You” Means So Much
“Thank you” is two simple words that can be so powerful and encouraging. A simple thank you encourages others by letting them know what they have done is meaningful and worth while. You are acknowledging that persons contribution and recognising that they are making a difference.
“Thank you” can motivate, validate and give positive reinforcement.
Increase the number of times you use these two words daily and you will be making a difference to someone!
Other great words that we can speak to offer encouragement is saying “Well Done” or “Congratulations”.
Words of encouragement at the right time can make the difference between “keeping going” and “giving up”.